Break-ups

"Nothing lasts forever." "Everything has an end." "Happy endings don't exist"

Who of us haven't heard any of these quotes? I think everyone has, but you know, they may be true...sometimes. Teenagers feel the need to be in a relationship so desperately that they don't take the time to choose correctly. We find ourselves going out with the worst guy in school, the biggest loser, or the womanizer and...why? We don't know why but there's something in them that we find attractive. Sometimes is the aggression they have, we want to feel more independent, or they m

ake us feel older, and we're just wrong, nothing of these is true, just the opposite. Usually those guys are the more immature in the classroom, they just focus on things that don't really matter. That's why when you pick one of these boys to be your boyfriend you find yourself two weeks from now, alone crying in your bedside, questioning: what did I do wrong? Did he find someone better? And the answer to all of your questions is simple, they just don't want to compromise! It has nothing to do with you, it's just them.

Recipe to go through a break-up:

- Materials:

Sad songs, a blanket and a hole box of tissues. Friends, family, a pijama party, long walks with you

r dog and a trash can.

-Procedure:

1. The first thing you need to do is go to your room, then take the blanket, the box of tissues and put the sad songs in the top volume. Remember everything you want to remember, get mad, scream as much as you want and cry until you eyes are dry.

2. Next, spent all the time you need with your family, let them show you all the love they can, hug them and kiss them as you please.

3. On the week-end call out your friends and throw a pijama party, is a great way to talk about boys, share secrets, laugh, watch a movie and just feel safe with the ones that know you better.

4. Take your dog for a long walk, this way you will relax, and clear your mind.

5. For last, grab the trash can and throw away every picture, letters and memories, doing this you won't fall into the past and feel sad looking at all the memories.

Conclusions: Now your free! 

Here I quote a movie that I absolutely love, 17 Again. "When you're young everything feels like the end of the world. But it's not; it's just the beginning. You might have to meet a few more jerks, but one day you're gonna meet a boy who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Like the sun rises and sets with you." 

Be happy and learn from every mistake. Take your time, you may need a little more than a week to recover from a break-up, but as Mike O'Donnell said, it's just the beginning, more boys will come to your life, just focus on your needs and what you really look for in a relationship. Good luck girl, now change your perspective of the situation and think of what that immature boy has lost!